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Understand What Is Already Working For Others
When you truly understand this concept it can be the turning point in your life. To find out what is Already working for others, we need to ask ourselves a few questions, starting with, what are they doing that I am not? Are they working longer hours, or are they working smarter? When beginning any new project I dear say we all work longer hours, just to bring ourselves up to speed. Then the working smarter strategy would come into play. One way of working smarter would be having a coach.
A coach will keep you accountable and committed to the task at hand. There will be blockages that need to be broken through. These blockages can stop you in your tracks and drop your energy and enthusiasm from a level 9 to a level 4 very quickly. Self support is a very critical area, as you need to be aware of it. What are the stories you are telling yourself? Are you saying, ?This is frustrating?? Or are you saying, ?If others have done this, so can I do it.? These facts of how we support ourselves are the difference between success and failure.
A supportive Professional coach will be able to identify the unsupportive language, which can be heard in your conversation. There are moments when we feel stuck and the language we use will reflect your feelings. This reminds me of a conversation I was having with a friend of mine a while ago. I was telling her about the latest social network marketing sites out there. Her reply was, ?Wow that sounds overwhelming, because I haven?t even had a chance to have a look at any of that stuff.? Would she be likely to start, I would have to say no. In her mind she has made the project of having a look at the site too overwhelming. Her self talk would have gone something like this, ?Oh my goodness I can?t do that, I wouldn?t even know where to begin.? Then at a deeper level she properly would have ended the conversation in her head with something like this, ?I am not clever enough to do that anyway.? She would have carried the conversation on until she found a reason why she could not do the project.
However today I am pleased to say she now has a coach and the conversations in her head is quiet different. The conversation now goes something like this, ?Wow that sound a little challenging but exciting, I will have a look at a few sites and get familiar with how they work, because if others have done it, I am sure I can too.? It was not until she had the negative self talk pointed out to her that she could truly make that shift in her thinking. I am pleased to say she now understands what is working for others and follows some of those blue prints.
| My challenge to you is, is your life honestly reflecting what you really desire. Why not become one of the 20% who do what ever it takes to align there life to there desires. Be smarter and use the formula that others are using. I will now like to leave you with a quote from James Allen:
Let a man radically alter his thought and he will be astonished at the rapid transformation it will effect in material conditions of life.
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